Early adulthood is a critical phase because the young man is pressured to make decisions with long-lasting consequences without having made up his mind firmly enough, or, in some cases, without having the personality to take charge of the decisions made. Added to this is the frequent case of financial dependence, which ends up leading to submission to advice and opinions. Thus, he almost always gives in to the supposed “wisdom of the elders”, when in truth this is only useful to him as long as it is in conformity with what he truly wants for himself. Otherwise, such advice will only be the push into the abyss that will cause him the most severe regret he has ever experienced—regret, however, necessary for him to mature, and realize that only a life in which the consequences suffered are the fruit of personal choices is worth living. The amusing thing, in short, is that in most cases a few more years would be enough for decisions to be made in a more sensible way; but no, for some reason they have to be made hastily, perhaps because the mistake itself is fundamental.
Category: Notes
One Avoids Much Frustration…
One avoids much frustration by remembering that art is also mostly made up of mediocre men, with mediocre inclinations, who learned artistic technique as they would learn to fly a kite or play Sudoku. Thus, the majority distinguish themselves only superficially, when in essence they have nothing superior. So to expect, in each work, the discovery of an extraordinary spirit is simply unreasonable. It is precisely because they are rare that great artists deserve special appreciation.
What Never Fails to Impress…
What never fails to impress is that an extraordinary nature emerges from a barren cradle, rising as if without stimulus and starting from itself, completely overcoming all circumstances. In early cases, the phenomenon borders on the inexplicable. The most frequent occurrence, however, does not fail to impress. In this one, a careful analysis always shows the action of a centripetal force, which with greater or lesser intensity directs, not to say impels, the vocation and the resolution to externalize it. In this way, the process always seems to culminate at a point from which the past becomes strange but justified, although the origin of such a decisive motivation remains a mystery.
It Is Notorious That the So-Called…
It is notorious that the so-called temperamental predispositions are almost always anchored in experience, thus removing much of the meaning they seem to suggest. Much of what psychology says about environmental conditioning and its long-term impacts is definitely true, and it is indisputable that the environment interferes and shapes, its effect being proportional to the exposure time and intensity of the contact. Thus, whether we like it or not, we carry something with us from it, and precisely for this reason, distancing ourselves from it is fundamental in case this something inclines to the undesirable. Blocking oneself and creating psychological barriers to avoid its influence is possible and, in extreme cases, indispensable; but an experience, even if it bears fruit, cannot, no matter how much one may wish, simply be erased.