Curiously, influence and success are often accompanied by controversy, and controversy by envy, hatred, and defamation. This rule applies regardless of the personalities and the nature of what is exposed to the public, which loves and hates, admires and envies. Polemicists know it as well as saints and spiritual leaders. The noble and the scoundrel, the impassioned and the refined, are all familiar with it. Thus, to seek the former without understanding the natural course of things is to subject oneself to a rather unpleasant ordeal from which there seems to be no escape.
Tag: behavior
Just as What a Carioca Would Call “personality”…
Just as what a Carioca would call “personality” may seem like immodesty to a stranger, that same stranger, when in contact with Chinese people, might find their modesty strange, as it sometimes seems exaggerated or irrational. It turns out that, in both cases, such impressions would be false and would say nothing about the individuals, other than that they are in harmony with local customs. Here, we can see how much confusion contact with other peoples can generate, and how little we can know about individuals when we ignore the rules of behavior that prevail in their region.
The Multi-Billionaire Elon Musk Recently…
The multi-billionaire Elon Musk recently said that “saving for retirement will be irrelevant” and, as if he knew what I have been doing and suffering for over ten years, he gave me some personal advice: “Don’t worry about squirreling money away for retirement in 10 or 20 years. It won’t matter.” No doubt, such words would have been very welcome on the happiest day of my life, and would have been more than enough justification for me to start burning through the little I had saved. But when it comes to money—and only money!—I am like Schopenhauer. And that means I am unable to believe the words of the visionary rocket engineer and space explorer, finding it much more plausible that, in a future like this, I will find a way to go broke. It would be beautiful, wonderful, to retire now and wait for the day when it will no longer be necessary to retire. Buy a little hole, light my cigarette, and write. Sitting in a rocking chair and gazing at the clouds, basking in the morning sun every day. Very, very beautiful… but I need another life to be able to trust a robot.
Allowing Oneself to Become Entangled…
Allowing oneself to become entangled in the web of tasks and responsibilities of mundane life practically seals, for as long as this state lasts, the possibility of the mind realizing how much is being wasted. This can only be realized later, with luck, when the waste has already been consummated. The positive side of the situation is that learning usually requires the mistake to be experienced personally; that is, first the slip, then the lesson. Without temporarily wasting itself, the mind does not assimilate the concrete consequences of doing so. But it so happens that, after a certain point, what was instructive has either been assimilated or proven innocuous, and the mind has either decided to transform itself or accepted to lock itself into an endless cycle of repetition.